So it seems that once every three years or so, it is demanded of me to not break tradition of my “yearly” NYE post. This is a tradition that is near and dear to my bestest friend Holly’s heart, even though said tradition doesn’t exist. So as to maintain this friendship and not break my eccentric friend’s heart, I bring you my not-so-clever-but-mostly-true-thoughts on the soon to be departed 2016.
At this point everyone knows how sucktastic 2016 was - Bowie, Prince, Carrie Fisher, Muhammad Ali, a craptastic election - don’t think I need to rehash that. Personally, I know a lot of people have had really terrible things happen. I, for one, turned 30 and my body immediately fell apart. I wont go in to all the details, but let’s just say $3k and 3 months of physical therapy later, my body still hates me. Also I’ve developed carpal tunnel, had to replace the plumbing in my house (not a euphemism), fix the clutch on my car for the 2nd time in 3 years (NOT MY FAULT I SWEAR) and have had not, one, but two different stomach bugs within a few weeks of each other just to close the year out right - and somehow I've still gained 10lbs this year!! Talk about a curse.
BUT....in taking a closer look, 2016 was also the year I bought my very first home with the love of my life. It was the year I was fortunate to have enough funding to fly home and see my brand new baby niece every other month so I could see how much she grew in her first year of life. I was blessed to get to spend time and vacation with many of my very good friends including a trip to the beach where I ran and ran in the waves with the best puppy a girl could ask for. 2016 also brought me the chance for my BFSB (best friend since babies, in case you aren’t hip) to come see my new home states away AND for me to see hers as well! I traveled to NYC and had an amazing time watching Adam Duritz and Rob Thomas in a crowd of roughly 300 covering each others songs - it was magical, plus later Mr. Duritz then recommended to me a life changing milkshake which did in fact change my life. I formed not one, but two bands - shout out to Meathammer and The Silence. I got to witness what those from Chicagoland can deem as nothing short of a MIRACLE - the Cubs winning the world series after 108 years - and I got to do it alongside the biggest cubs fan I know. AND I was mistaken for Princess Leia by a child on a Southwest flight carrying a Luke Skywalker doll.
Me: *hair in braids wearing a tunic and boots* oh man! is that Luke Skywalker??
Kid’s Dad: oh my gosh! how does she know who that is??
Kid to dad: IS THAT PRINCESS LEIA?!? *gives me an R2 sticker out of his sticker book*.
Me: Thank you! I’ve got something for you too! *pulls out heartshaped pin of R2 and C3PO I kept in my pocket*. (end scene)
So all of that gets me to wondering.....I mean...is 2016 just that whiny friend on facebook? You know what I mean, we all have them. Those one or two people who like to update on everything thing that has gone wrong in their terrible cursed life. Now here’s the thing... I’m not saying those people’s lives don’t have some suck. I’m also not saying 2016 did not suck for many many people, there were deaths and terrible world tragedies that I by no means intend to make light of. However, what I am saying is that maybe the AMOUNT of suckage compared to any other year with deaths and tragedies has just been a bit over blown this year by the frequency in which we announce it. #ThanksSocialMedia (see what I did there? ps. if you are reading this....you are also on social media, so....)
Exhibit A - While some will argue that there were more notable celebrity deaths this year than in years past, both Snopes and CNN have confirmed that 2016 is not the largest year of celebrity deaths in recent history.
Exhibit B - Many great things have happened this year too. GIANT props to my college bud, Eric Feltes, for making it his mission to update everyone with #FeelGoodFriday facts each week. Here are just a few of the things he took the time to point out this year:
- New study shows a blood test may detect cancer 10 years in advance.
- CEO of Imprimis Pharmaceuticals Mark Baum, who is known for offering a $1 AIDS medication, is developing a customizable alternative to the EpiPen for under $100.
- A new drug in the early stages of study called aducanumab is known to slow down memory loss and could be a cure for Alzheimer's.
- The first ever quadriplegic is showing motor function just two months after stem cell treatment.
- Obama moves to permanently protect Planned Parenthood from being defunded by the states. (Fact: Only 3% of PP's medical services are abortions. PP is celebrating its 100th anniversary this year and has helped millions, especially young women in need, with cancer screenings, STD testing, and contraception.)
- A 16 year old developed an app called "Sit With Us," which helps teens find lunch buddies.
- Daryl Davis is a black musician who has spent the past 30 years befriending KKK members; since he started, 200 members have dropped out of the organization after seeing the error in their ways.
- The Taronga Zoo in Australia opens its doors one hour early for children with Autism so they can enjoy the animals in a stress-free environment.
- Colorado is using over $66 million in surplus tax revenue from marijuana sales for school grants for bully prevention programs.
- A terminally ill 6 year old raises €400,000 to help children less fortunate than him because "It could be worse, some kids don't even live to be 6."
- A toy store devoted for children on the autism spectrum opened in Chicago.
- The National Pediatric Cancer Foundation in North Carolina hosted a fashion show where children dressed as their dream careers and walked down the runway alongside men and women in these careers.
- USA solar power energy grows 192% since last year.
- Costa Rica has been running on renewable energy alone for 2 months now.
- Las Vegas now draws 100% of its energy from renewable sources.
- Google will be powered completely by renewable energy in 2017.
- The president of France announced plans to close all coal power plants by 2023.
- A global non-profit, Planting Peace, launched an LGBT flag into outer space along with this message: "Declaring space as LGBT friendly reinforces our universal message to our LGBT family: You are loved, valued, and beautiful. There is nothing wrong with you. You are not alone, and we will stand with you."
- For the first time in history, half of NASA’s astronaut class consists of females.
- Luxembourg’s Prime Minister is the first EU leader to marry his same-sex partner.
- A Muslim businessman has erected the tallest Christmas tree in Baghdad as a way of honoring Iraqi Christians this season.
- A Muslim-owned restaurant in London is offering a free 3-course meal to the elderly and homeless on Christmas.
- South Korea market bans the slaughtering of dogs.
- Conclusions by a Harvard psychologist suggest that dogs dream about how much they love their human companions.
- Therapy dogs at an Australian hospital reduce kids’ recovery time by 30%.
- A retired couple in New Westminster is converting their 25 acre farm into Honor Ranch: a safe space for veterans who suffer from PTSD.
- Los Angeles is turning old motels and hospitals into 500 apartments for homeless veterans.
- Following the Standing Rock protesters’ victory Sunday where construction on the Dakota Access Pipeline was halted, a forgiveness ceremony was held with U.S. veterans and Native Americans.
- A 72 year old Louisiana flood victim wins $1M lottery.
So do what you do with 2016, but just remember there will be good and bad to any year - it’s all about what you choose to focus on. Don’t be like me with As Seen On TV infomercials and let what you see on TV affect your daily state of being. Be kind. Focus on the good. Be the good. And for those of you asking what we tell our children in these turbulent times (cause let’s face it, for those of you fretting the results of the recent election, we can’t thrown the Trump baby out with the 2016 bathwater, that effects 2017 too), I suggest you take the advice of Mister Rogers:
Fred Rogers often told this story about when he was a boy and would see scary things on the news: "My mother would say to me, 'Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.' To this day, especially in times of disaster, I remember my mother's words, and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers — so many caring people in this world."
Happy new year, y’all.